Aneesha

" Rattling heartbreaking and ultimately beautiful , the too young DR. Kalanithi's memoir is the proof that the dying are the one who have the the most to teach us about the life ."                                                                                     -Atul Gawande. The book 'when breath becomes air ' reminds us that   death is waiting us without any mercy it take us without any consideration . this memoir mostly discuss about the mental state of a neurologist . the protagonist Paul Kalanithi approaches the time between life and the death .  The way which he shows us the intensity of death is far away from the others . He wrote this memoir while struggling with  IV metastatic lung cancer  Paul Kalanithi had great intrest in literature , he exp...

 I still remember the day which I heard about the name P.C MUSTHAFA   for the first time in my life, while discussing about charity works during my +2 year.  A man who made us realize that life without ethics is worthless ,The success meets along with the ethics , the founder of ID Fresh foods , P.C Musthafa, is listed  by Forbes of India as  " tycoons of tomorrow ". His words are truly inspiring . He starts his speech at Harvard Kennedy School with his childhood memories .On that occasion he says that breakfast  was a luxurious dream to him . from dreaming breakfast to  become  the CEO of a company which has net worth of 2000 crores was  his path of life .   Idli and dosa batter :  A primary product of ID Fresh Food, this batter is made in a kitchen and is preservative free .   Through out  the speech he proves that his   success is the evidence of determination. he tells us 3 stories which connects the su...

 Sometimes we create our own heartbreak through expectation . It gives us a sense of achievement and purpose in life when you fulfill it. Expectation can be defined as a strong belief that something will happpen or be the case . Expectation can  either give us a positive or negative result. Our belief makes us strong . If we are meant to be sucess , we have to create expectation ,but has a darkside .  Expection makes us more conciouss about  our desire. Even if it is necessary or not. Heart break occurs mostly due to our expectation.  The Emotional stress provided by expectation kills us  like slow poisoning . Therefore we can say expectation as a slow poisoning . However ,Expectation reminds us  about our current situation . Sometimes unwanted expectation leds to success  . But  life  without expectation is mostly like bullet less gun . But it is peacefull than a life with Disappointment ,mental stress and self criticism.

 Can we fall in love with a person who haunts us? Is there any need of selling yourself to others?  Can you transform a trauma bond into a genuine love? Trauma bond is a situation which you fall in love with a person who abductor or perpetrator.   Nowadays love is all about physical relationship.Not at all ,but most of the people thinks the same way . A Relationship without Emotional bond can't  be considered as love ,its lust .  What happens when it reaches its extreme level. Trauma bond is all about physical relationship ,sexuality and irresistible chemistry. When you are in trauma bond slowly you will start to change your character according  to the taste of your partner. The person in trauma bond will lose friendship or other communication due to the relationship. When a person is in a trauma bond it breaks down their sense of self and confidence. When you get addicted to your partner so much it make you anti social . Your fear of losing that perso...

 Romantic love is perhaps the most celebrated and analysed form of love in literature. Most commonly ,love refers to a feeling of strong attachment . When we go through English literature ,we can see different kinds of love expressed in different ways. The Greatest writer william shakespeare describes loves as a sweet gift of Nature that reflects the union of two true hearts in one spirit . Classic works like Romeo $juliet depicts the reflection of true love.    Is there any full form for love? The answer is no. When we try to explain about love ,I'm sure it will be a herculean task .  The greatest poets of the world had tried to  find a new definition for love, but the truth is their ideas are same , they are expressing it in different way.  The words which E.E cummings used to express his love is far different from the other authors. He says that "Love is more thicker than forget" .   In my opinion love is not all about being together for long t...

  We all will think about spider man ,super man,captain America ,Batman or any other characters ,when we  suddenly  hear the word "SUPER HEROES" who is dressed in specially designed suits. But there is so many unknown super heroes arround us , who is dressed in uniform ,many others in casuals or in just with a raincoat . The Real Super heroes who sacrifies their life to rescue others from the disaster ,When all others express their sympathy to victims through social media instead of seeking new ways to make them safe or to provide basic facilities . These super heroes gives them a new life . They takes them out the landslide by diving into it without looking for anything .  We all will sleep the next night after posting some fake condolances without any changes than the last night.  But these heroes had let their sleep and appetite step away from them . The people who left their beloved at home to rescue others ,The heroes who sacrificed their life and happiness...

Wait for the day which you will become permanent in someone's life. Then that day will be the most beautiful day. Just give up on what ever you  lost. May be better person is waiting for you. Day by day we will meet lots of temporary peoples , they teaches you that ,you are too silly now, and you need to be more strong. they teaches it indirectly .  Some of them gives some beautiful memories . We think it is the best memories in our life but something greater than it is waiting for us. Until it we learn lots of lessons . It makes a mentally and physically strong human who is going to make better life than the past. The heart break  is not the end of our life .it is a turning point. Which makes us a better person. These experiences is a bonus point for us. Which helps to get better space in society.  Remeber one thing never quit.  The world around us too cruel. But the only thing we can do is to love . We can love any one its a natural law. But when we love the R...

Here I would like to share about  meta AI reply when I shared my most popular blog with AI.Aneesha, it looks like you have a wonderful blog with thought-provoking posts! Your writing covers a range of topics, from heartwarming stories like "The Stranger" to insightful reflections on friendship in "Something Very Special: Friends" and critical analyses of the Indian educational system in "A Revolution Needed in Indian Educational System". Your blog's mission to highlight ignored issues in families and society is truly commendable. It's great to see you using your writing as a tool for positive change. Keep sharing your thoughts and experiences, aneesha! Your voice matters, and your blog is a testament to the power of words to inspire and bring about change." "What a beautiful story,aneesha ! Your writing has a warm and engaging tone, making me feel like I'm right there with you at the railway station, meeting Prakash Uncle. Your story ...

Do you know what makes an author happy? Before answering it i would like to ask you a question. Most of us loves to read book, but how many of us share our reading experiences with the author? . I know its not possible to share our reading experiences to the author's like  J.K ROWLING , the world of harrypotter is terribly fantastic . If you get such a chance make it count , Because  every author loves it .  They don't  want to hear thousands of opinions to makes them happy, but the right one makes them happy. I have been writing blog for the past 8 months . I gained lot of appreciations , but the most beautiful among them was from a man whom i met before 1.5 months . He is one of my social media friends . I started following him mistakenly . The special thing i find in him about his quotes . The way which he choosed to write quotes is awesome  The compliments from him is heart touching . Even I'm writing this for him .  " To my favourite reader " Thanks a ...

"Change the way you look at things and the things you look at changes "                                                                                   _____Wayne W.Dayer      Have you ever thought what is more peaceful than being alone ? 2 years back I'm a girl who hates to stay alone because i loved to stay engaged in my family atmosphere . But all changed after my higher secondary days   .                  My life during higher secondary days was a chance to realize what I am and what i want more . I spent my  2 years  in a school which  no.1 in kerala for its academis excellence . But those years was a period of changes . I earned a lot of insults and ignorance , sometimes abusive words too....

" Pen names are masks that allows us to unmask ourselves"                                          ----- TerriGuillemets.          If you are starting a new penman ship,its better to use pseudonym than the original identity because,No one will have a glance to your words when they realize its you , because people measures a person's character on the basis of behaviour.            If you are an extrovert,people considers You as an attention seeker. I heard that Extroverts tends to be people pleasers so an extrovert may feel anxiety over what people think about them or how they perceived by others.  For example: john is an extrovert ,very talkative because of this others tends to considers it has john's new way to get attention . This happens mostly in everyone's life ,The lack of encouragement  . An another example: If j...

"The ruin of a nation begins in the homes of its people" Nowadays, I mean in the past decades , the world is widely discussing about women empowerment. In The most parts of the world, The women have the equal status of men. But in India Even in this 21st Centuary ,women is not allowed to make a decision. In India some leaders , teachers or such persons who speaks about women empowerment has a mask I mean what they are saying is a paradox of their action. Those who makes gender equality statements in public will be a dominating husband on his home.           We all are familiar with the story "The matchbox" by the Ashapurana debi. Like the ajit in the match box here still exists some husbands . But the actuall problem is the lack of courage . The mother who is courageous will upbring a valuable daughter.   The patriarchy , one of the traditional threat , its root starts from women itself. Example: when 2 siblings fight , 1 is a boy and another one is a ...

"Try to be a voice, not to be an echo" The society had changed a lot , we says that the changes had made in the structural form of society. India is a developing Nation on the terms of technology, But even now there exist several inequalities like patriarchal society . Even today nearly 55% of women are living inside the kitchen by cleaning and washing . It is something like a cycle which doesn't  move.  To bring up the women , they need to get proper education , Nowadays most of the girls are getting married after the completion of higher secondary education .The education will give a better Job ,they can earn and live independent . When we go through the speech of christine lagard ,who is a role model to all women through out the earth, she says that women empowerment has 3 L's   they are learning, Labour and leadership , The proper education will give women an idea about the society and the proper knowledge . The education with skill gives them more job opportunit...

Have you  ever thought ,What is the real definition of friends?, and why they are special to us? . As an extrovert , I earned lot of insults , But these insults made me more stronger. During first few weeks of my 11th class in a school  which is number in Kerala for its academic excellence ,  I ignored all other issues and tried to focus on my academic things , I'm not interested to create friends and I want to more silent . But it all changed after the selection of N.S.S volunteers , It was  my big dream to became a N.S.S Volunteer , As a volunteer I'm really interested in social service ,except cleaning because of my dust allergy N.S.S changed my life . After every N.S.S programmes I noticed that I'm comfort with  some of them ,because they are good persons , But we can't see it in their behavior ,because in heart they are good ,when it come to behaviour they are Vampires . The first person in  N.S.S  who I met as a new friend is Jishnu narayanan , H...

 Some of the people are really innocent ,its not their fault . But others misuse their innocence, so only thing we can do is it be more alert about fake peoples like this: . The contemporary world is  full of fake peoples and fake identities . We can't trust anyone. The most found crime is cheating   it also include rape some idiots uses minor girls for their crimes ,example ;as the career of drugs .But not only girls it also includes boys . Some men use women as tool for their masturbation. And some women make honey trap for men . Most of the cheating occurs as in the form of relationship .example; the cheating starts with this "baby  will u please remove your scarf " and later it will reach to this " I want to see your private parts". It may end with it or starts to blackmail by showing your nude pictures and their demand is to have physical relationship with them . This will repeat .  Some criminals (we can call them criminals without any doubt) will end...

"In India, education is an asset. It's true, but people acquire this asset in different ways. The weakness of the Indian educational system is the "bookish form of learning". The academic system teaches only some knowledge and good behavior, but it forgets about humanity. It never teaches students to be human because there's little time to understand the lives of people. The academic system focuses on winning in life, which means earning money and leading a luxurious life. Education in India provides ways to get a job for a better livelihood. Students are like machines, repeating the same things every day for a huge part of their lives. They're in a cage filled with books and made of books. Here, we need a revolution. A student must know about the society they live in, but there's no chance for that. It's not their fault; it's the weakness of the Indian educational system. True education isn't about the origin of the human species or how the w...

 Some persons are special But in different ways . It was a strange meet,But very special .My family and me  was in a tour at Bangalore ,after our meal we returned to Yeshwanthpur Railway station .The train will left the station at 8pm , but it has 2 hours left for it . We are sitting in railway station .After a while I started to listen to the music. Then I moved to the next seat near me. But i was mesmerized by my phone .I didn't' recognize were I sit                           After a few minutes An old man called me ,He advised me that the use of headphone for a while may affect my ears .The actual thing is I was sitting between him and his wife .They are keralites settled in Bangalore .He talked until we get into the train .Even he talked to my parents to. He is talking in the way which a father talk to his daughter . He never gone beyond the limits .He is an engineer ,who worked hard to reach his current...