Trauma Bond

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 Can we fall in love with a person who haunts us?

Is there any need of selling yourself to others? 

Can you transform a trauma bond into a genuine love?

Trauma bond is a situation which you fall in love with a person who abductor or perpetrator.  

Nowadays love is all about physical relationship.Not at all ,but most of the people thinks the same way . A Relationship without Emotional bond can't  be considered as love ,its lust . 

What happens when it reaches its extreme level.

Trauma bond is all about physical relationship ,sexuality and irresistible chemistry. When you are in trauma bond slowly you will start to change your character according  to the taste of your partner. The person in trauma bond will lose friendship or other communication due to the relationship. When a person is in a trauma bond it breaks down their sense of self and confidence. When you get addicted to your partner so much it make you anti social . Your fear of losing that person makes you more offensive. Love the person who accepts you as you. 

Even some books shows these changes when its character fall into a trauma bond .

Examples: Lost in Him, Flowers From the storm.

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