Requirement of self love

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Friendship,love,betrayal,we all had gone through these phase for atleast once in our life.It seems to strange to me when a book became reflection of my life. there is a aditi in everyone's life . the protagonist aditi stands as horegallu for everyone around her they left  their burden on aditi.
 while starting to read the book  "ettavum priyapetta ennodu" I never thought it will become reflection of my life. aditi reminds us that life is not all about earning lot of money or fame ,but its all about gaining true friendships ,love and parental care.according to me i had find true friendship during my higher secondary time .I gained much more insults from my parents than appreciation.My parents had tried to understand my situation most of the time ,but they never tried to do it  when i really need it.I never gave a chance to any one to cheat me . same as aditi me too had a fictional boyfriend
Aditi works as  a pain killer for her friends. In my life I was a chill pill more like infectious cheerfullness . I was wondered when i heard about me from one of my +2 classmates
 He said that "you are always happy", to them I appeard like that but it wasn't fully right, I tried to hide all my pain and grievences during day time. Atlast I learned to enjoy each and every moments in my life , i just throw all the caution to the wind and moved on from hardships.
Aditi kept devika away from suicide, the same aditi tried to suicide . she says that ,suicide is not a foolishness ,it is a state which we realize we are cheated , a fool cann't reach this conclusion , a fool can't realize it.therefore suicide is a right decision!. This book pointed the most crucial thing occuring in every south indian middle  class family ,she says that "the freedom which wrote in indian constitution can be kept in cupboard.because girls doesn't have any use with it". I hope this will end within next decades.
Thanks for Nimna Vijay for this wonderful reading experience . These all happens due to the lack of self love. When we start to love ourself all will be fine.

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